Shallow Relationship:The New Form of Youth Socializing and Its Guiding Strategies:An Analysis of"Hunong-ology"and"Dazi"Phenomena
"Hunong-ology"and"Dazi"are two Internet buzzwords about youth socializing,reflecting the new pattern of youth socializing with shallow relationship at the core,both passive and active.This pattern is character-ized by being functional,fragile,and born on the Internet.The reasons why shallow relationship is popular among young people are the influences from lifestyle changes,the enhancement of subject consciousness,and the develop-ment of network technology.Not only the objective needs of young people for shallow relationship should be seen,but also the hidden dangers of shallow relationship should be alert to.The decline of social quality,the degradation of social ability,and the emergence of psychological problems should not be ignored.For eliminating the negative effects,it is necessary to guide young people to participate in healthy social contact and build harmonious interper-sonal ecology from multiple perspectives,such as increasing leisure time,strengthening connection with acquaint-ance around,establishing a healthy concept of making friends,and rationally using social media.