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媒人在古代婚姻中发挥着重要作用,这是在先秦时期奠定的基础.最早的媒人,当出现于人类进入族外婚的史前时代.每个部族的女性祖先,应该就是该部族祭祀的负责人口繁衍与男女婚姻的女神"高禖"(高媒),比如夏人的涂山氏、商人的简狄、周人的姜嫄等.《周礼》中的"媒氏",是周代官方的婚姻媒介组织,负责婚姻男女的统计与管理工作,实施劝导早婚多育,为适龄单身男女提供组成婚姻家庭的机会,其最高长官应是由颇有生育管理经验的老年女性担任.《仪礼·士昏礼》中的"使者""使""宾",应该是在贵族婚姻过程中担任说合任务的媒人.《左传》记载了一些诸侯国君之间的跨国婚姻,媒人级别也比较高,一般由该国的执政大臣或宰相担任.《诗经》"国风"中反映家庭、婚姻、爱情的诗篇,多有平民阶层婚姻的媒人,应是当时社会主要的媒人群体.作为一个古老且重要的社会角色,媒人需要有较高的职业修养和语言能力,非一般人所能胜任.
Discussions of Matchmaker in Marriage of the Pre-Qin Period
The matchmaker played an important role in ancient marriage,of which the foundation was laid in the pre-Qin period.The earliest matchmaker began in prehistoric times when human beings entered the marriage outside the tribe.The earliest female ancestor of each ethnic group should be the goddess of marriage and fertility of that ethnic group"Gao Mei",such as Tushan Shi of Xia,Jian Di of Shang,Jiang Yuan of Zhou,etc.The"matchmaker"in Zhouli is the official marriage media organization in the Zhou dynasty,which is responsible for the statistics and management of married people,the implementation of persuasion to marry early and have more children,and the opportunity for single men and women of the right age to form a family,whose top leader should be an elderly woman with considerable experience in birth management.The"Shizhe""Shi"and"Bin"in Yili·Shi Hunli should be the matchmaker in the process of aristocratic marriage.Zuo Zhuan recorded the transnational marriages between some vassal states,and the level of matchmaker was relatively high,usually the ruling minister or prime minister of the country.The poems reflecting family marriage and love in the"national style"of The Book of Songs were mostly matchmakers of the marriage of the civilian class,which was the most matchmaker group in the society at that time.As an ancient and important social role,the matchmaker needs to have high professional accomplishment and language ability,which is beyond the competence of ordinary people.

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南开大学历史学院

南开大学历史学院先秦史研究室

南开大学中国社会史研究中心(天津300350)

先秦 婚姻 媒人

教育部人文社会科学重点研究基地重大项目

20JJD770008

2024

中原文化研究

中原文化研究

CHSSCD
影响因子:0.273
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年,卷(期):2024.12(2)
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