In some contemporary youth, there is a common sense of dependence, the ubiquity of loneliness, and the dispersion of low desire, which are generally regarded as negative by the mainstream concept, but after dialectical thinking, some complex mentality with positive effects can also be discovered. The main reasons for their complex mentality are the isolation and helplessness and escape from freedom under the survival of individual trends, the excessive rendering and malicious speculation of the media driven by capital, and the emotional appeal and social needs across material needs. We should focus on the transformation of social reality with people 's livelihood security and institutional justice as the core, the transformation of connection mode with information transmission and interest expression as the core, and the self-transformation of young people with psychological service and spiritual construction as the core to adjust and adapt to their complex mentality.