This paper tries to apply"rites"of"new six arts"into the work of student supervisor,which includes serving students'individual needs,constructing students'ideals and beliefs,promoting students'all-round development.Starting from"etiquette",We can create an educational environment full of humanistic care on the premise of"Rites".We can transform the concept of student management work by the means of"Rites";We can solve practical difficulties for students by taking"etiquette"as the starting point.