Against the backdrop of dramatic social change and family transformation,the new generation of parents,mainly those born in the 80s,have gradually abandoned the traditional authoritarian parent-child interaction mode in family upbringing,opting instead to actively explore new parent-child interaction modes.This has led to the formation of a"strategic democratic"parent-child interaction mode,where parents not only maintain basic authority,but also promote their children's"adulthood and excellence"through democratic communication,guided by clear upbringing goals.Under the guidance of clear parenting goals,parents not only maintain their basic authority,but also promote their children's"success in adulthood and strive for excellence"through democratic communication.The practical basis for this model is intergenerational education,paternal involvement,husband-wife collaboration,home-school collaboration,and the supplementation of market-oriented educational services.The involvement of competition in education and the domestication of parenting responsibilities;the reflection of 80s-born parents on the traditional model of parenting and the emotional transformation of the family;and the"competition"for children with smartphones in the context of a digital society make this model of parent-child interaction a logical choice for an ideal model of parenting.Aside from the"ideal parenting model",the domestication of parenting responsibilities and the over-refinement and de-publicization of parenting are issues that deserve attention.
关键词
亲子互动/教养实践/策略型民主/"80后"父母/教育去公共化
Key words
Parent-child Interaction/Parenting Practice/Strategic Democracy/Post-80s parents/Depublicalization of Education